Pregnant women warnings for new dads!

1. She probably has to pee, right this moment.

2. Her mood may change at any moment.... and then change back. Then back once more.

3. Morning sickness does not just occur in the morning.Some women experience morning sickness all day, or feel worse into the evening. Be sympathetic.

4. She looks at you differently now.This can work both ways, if you actively engage in preparing for the baby, she may love you more deeply. If you don't, she may be weary of your suitability as a father.

5. It takes a fraction of the time for her to get upset that it previously did.Probably about a quarter of the time it used to.

6. You will hear the female anatomy discussed with unparalleled candor.It will make you uncomfortable. Very uncomfortable. You won't look at women the same way.

7. She will get freaked out.Probably by some article she read, it is your job to find another article that says the first article is wrong.

8. If you don't sympathize with her, you will drop in her estimation.Demonstrate some empathy for her aches, pains, nausea and fears or your relationship will be strained.

9. Don't expect her to maintain her pre-pregnancy activity levels.She tires easily and won't be able to keep up with her normal activities, from her job to anything she might do around the house. You will have more to do.

10. She has to pee again. Seriously.

Ugh!

I'm SOOOOO down, I feel so FAT I gained 50lbs or more already, I'm bad tempered and dowdy! My clothes are all made for 80yr old women and frumpy, thats the clothes I can still fit in, and as much as I don't want to moan.... I'm not paying the prices for maternity wear for 3 months useage, I need a fairy godmother, who will bring me some sexy stuff to wear, so I can stop looking like a frump, infact I am at my happiest in my PJ's... but I can't live in those... yesterday I got some pants which I totally regret now cos they are really bad and cling to every ounce of cellulite I got, which is a lot!!! OH WELL POOR ME!!

The unlucky

Well, poor poor Jade, she is to wed her OH on Sunday, but currently, he has a custodial tag for nonpayment of fines, and a he got caught speeding..... today our government has granted that he will be able to spend his wedding night with his new bride, I am happy for them both, she has very little time left and I feel she should be as happy as she can be, As I would wish for anyone in this situation. May God be with her and her family. x

With referance to my earlier post

THINGS TO SEE BEFORE I DIE..... OR GET TO OLD!

• The golden gate bridge, San Fransisco ~I think it should be a wonder of the world
• Rio de Janeiro - Statue of Christ the Redeemer on Corcovado Mountain in Rio ~Because it's the closest I'll get
• The Taj Mahal, India ~I want to feel the love
• A Tornado Over Kansas ~I want to feel the fear
• Ground Zero ~I want to share the pain

Highly Emotional....

There is a British Celeb call Jade Goody, she rose to fame through Big Brother a few years back, she is 27yrs old, ONE year younger than me. A month or so ago, she was diagnosed with Cervical Cancer, last week she was told that the cancer had spread to her vital organs and that she only had months, if not weeks to live. She has two young sons, age 4 and 5 I think.

At the age of 18 i started having abnormal smears, and at 21 was told I had class 4 pap smear, one stage of cancer, I had a cone biopsy and they removed the abnormal cells, age 24 the same happened again and this time I had a GA to have the cells removed, I since have had the OK, but this was just after Brooke was born, 19months ago, and will certainly be going to see the gyno ASAP after the birth! It has put the fear of God into me!

I feel for Jade and her family, there has been alot of stipulation about her "fame" and the way she is doing things... She is getting married and has sold her wedding pics to Hello mag (or maybe OK mag) for £700,000 to be put in a trust fund for her boys. She is keeping live coverage of her cancer, and it is being aired over here, again for her boys. She is a mother who is doing what she can to secure her sons future. I find it really sad that some horrid people out there can put things on her web site like you reap what you sow.... and that she deserves it..... NO ONE deserves that....

There were a few issues with Actress Shilpa Shetti and racism, Jade got in a lot of trouble, but now has made friends with Shilpa. she has been generally unliked in the public eye, but personally I like her, and I deeply feel for the girl. She actually did Big Brother celeb (big boss) in India, or somewhere in that direction with regards to her racism attack, which is when she was first pulled of air to be told she has cancer.....

I am really heart broken for her, maybe its my pregnancy but I'm so sad for her, and crying for her and i really just want to wish her and her family the best that can poss ably be.

Right arm is missing!

Well what an eventful life!! LOL.....

Last week I lost my Internet and boy have I been at a loss!! But well now its back, and over the last week I've had so many thoughts and things to blog about, and now...... NOTHING, I'm as blank as a blank piece of paper! But oh well, I'm here and I can blog again.. If I ever think of anything, I seem to have writers block!

Oh, there is this one thing, Every time I'm pregnant, I tend to "see things" you know like beings, that aren't actually with us! When I was expecting Brett I saw a lady in my kitchen, to be told later it was a "midwife" doing her rounds, next pregnancy, Brooke, different house, we had a "old maid" no idea where or why she came, but she went after I had Brooke's, that or I just forgot about her. But man she was a scruffy one, i hope in my after life I get to take showers and have clean clothes!!
Now with this pregnancy, I keep "seeing" a man in my living room, not that I actually see him, but as sure as I am that black is black.... this being is a man, with a hat on!! Well I don't want to have the house blessed, he's here for a reason, but I also don't want to share my house with someone who is messing with my stuff, he's been putting the heating on in the night, which has really annoyed me, and just playing games, you know like making himself known! I'm pretty sure that he "belongs" to the house, he's not a member of my family, and I don't know why I'm so sure of that, but I am! He only resides in my living room, but has walked the stairs in the night, and like I said switched the heating on! He's friendly, and obviously has a sense of humour! Brett has been bothered about going up stairs, I don't really know the reason, and I'm not going to put ideas in his head, but I'm betting this is the reason... Kids see these things because they don't know that there not meant to, I'm seeing them because....I HAVE NO IDEA!!!!! Maybe tiredness!!! Well that's all for now, but I'll keep you updated!!

L xoxoxoxox

I AM....

I am My Children,
I am the customers I serve at work,
I am the person who bad mouths me and makes my life hell.
I am the people who love and know me well.
I am the people who choose not to like me.
I am my parents, and my sibling.
I am my husband, and his past
I am the children at pre school, whose lunch i serve
I am the leaders of pre school,
I am Liv Tyler's character in Armageddon.
I am Torey Hayden, and all her books,
I am my grandparents
I am the songs I love to sing.
I am all the blog spots I choose to read.
I am the films and television I watch.
I am the secondary school teacher, who chose not to give up on me.
I am my child hood friends... the ones who stuck around.
I am the contestants I see on game shows.
I am ex boyfriends, they are my past,
But most of all I am my Children and my husband, they are my future.